When we think about romance, we’re usually taught to look forward. Plan the date.Buy the gift.Make the reservation.Create a moment that hasn’t happened yet. But here’s something surprisingly romantic — and far more powerful than most Valentine’s gestures: Remembering how you met. Not polishing it.Not summarizing it in one sentence.But actually stepping back into the story. Because when you remember … Read More
“As You Wish”: Why Shared Phrases Become the Secret Language of Long Marriages
How do you relate your love story to The Princess Bride? If you asked me to describe The Princess Bride I’d tell you it is a story about love. The kind that survives everything. That’s the feeling I’m left with every time I watch it — not because it’s syrupy (it’s not), but because it’s steady. It’s playful and dramatic and … Read More
5 Reasons Why the New Year Is the Best Time to Write Your Love Story — Science Says So
Every January, without fail, something inside me flips on.It’s not just the urge to buy a new planner or the sudden belief that I might actually start meal prepping (still waiting on that miracle). It’s something deeper — a feeling that this is a moment to pause, look back, and reorient myself before life picks up speed again. And, funny … Read More
The One Writing Goal Every Couple Should Make This Year: Start a “We Remember” List
If the idea of “writing your love story” feels big, intimidating, or like something you’ll get to “someday”… then I have the perfect tiny step for you. Really tiny. So tiny you could start it tonight, even if you’re tired and the laundry’s still humming in the dryer. Ready? Start a “We Remember” List. That’s it.Not a chapter, not a … Read More
Romantic Nostalgia: The Emotional Glue You Didn’t Know Your Relationship Needed
You know those unexpected moments when you and your spouse slip into a “Do you remember…?” conversation? One minute you’re doing dishes, the next you’re both smiling about that old apartment with the squeaky door. Those moments might seem small, but they’re quietly powerful. They’re a kind of emotional glue—the kind that helps hold you steady when life feels a … Read More
5 Psychology-Backed Ways to Rekindle Your Marriage Using Your Shared Memories
If you’ve been married for a while, you probably know this truth already: Some days feel magical.Some days feel ordinary.And some days feel like you’re co-piloting a minivan through a very long to-do list. But here’s the good news — you don’t have to reinvent your marriage from scratch to feel close again. Sometimes the spark is hiding right inside … Read More
Why Knowing How Their Parents Met Makes Kids More Resilient (…Why Your Story Matters More Than You Think)
If you’ve ever told your kids the story of how you met — or if they’ve ever begged for it again at bedtime — you’ve already seen a little magic at work. There’s something almost irresistible about origin stories.Kids lean in. Their eyes widen. They ask the same questions over and over: “So what did Dad say next?”“Did you like … Read More
Your Love Story Advent Calendar: 25 Tiny Writing Prompts for December
A playful way to unwrap your memories, one day at a time. December always feels a little magical, doesn’t it?Twinkle lights. Peppermint everything. The scent of evergreens drifting in from somewhere. And tucked inside all of it — these tiny pockets of nostalgia that remind us who we are and what we love most. This year, instead of just counting … Read More
What Your Favorite Holiday Memory Says About Your Relationship
The holidays have a funny way of telling the truth about us — not in dramatic, movie-script moments, but in the small, ordinary memories that somehow stick. Ask someone their favorite holiday memory and they almost never tell you about a perfect table setting, a magazine-worthy tree, or a stress-free event. They tell you something about connection — about who … Read More
The Surprising Link Between Nostalgia and Gratitude in Long-Term Couples
You know that funny thing that happens when you look back at the early days of your relationship—the beginning-beginning—the part where you were still trying to figure each other out, but everything felt a little sparkly and new? Well, it turns out that little walk down memory lane does more than make you smile. According to researchers nostalgia literally boosts … Read More
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